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It
is always an honour to be invited into a sacred family space at a sad
time. I'll help you say the words which speak the reality of the event
Firstly
let me pay tribute to the clergy who have for time in memoriam,
traditionally conducted funeral services. But times have changed, and
for many people and communities, want an alternative way to say 'our
farewells' The funeral service should have "deep human meaning and give
emotional satisfaction" but it should also be more. There are so many
possibilities when it comes to celebrating a life, mourning the loss,
and celebrating life's final rite of passage … and to meet it all,
honestly and spiritually.
The
Chapel at the crematorium and gardens is a frequent setting for a
funeral service for celebrants, but any appropriate site can be used, a
public hall, and outdoor setting, or a private home. The committal can
be made grave-side, or cremation. The actual internment after cremation,
takes place later, at a time mutually convenient to yourselves and my
availability to attend with you. It is briefer than a funeral, and I
consider it an integral part of the ceremony, even though it is
performed some time later.
As a celebrant, I have nothing to do with
the documentation for the deceased. This is all prepared by your funeral
director. I do traditionally need to meet with the family, to gather
the details needed to create a meaningful ceremony for your loved ones
and yourself. It is usually easiest to meet with you at your home or by
appointment with your funeral director.
It
is always an honour to be invited into a sacred family space at a sad
time. I'll help you say the words which speak the reality of the event,
and the words that speak to your heart. Together we'll create meaningful
rituals … lighting candles, presenting single flowers, presenting
mementos 'gifts of the heart,' personal tributes, playing music, living
tributes and memorials. It is important to do the things that will be
meaningful and helpful to you.
At a time of death, those who grieve need to
give voice to their sorrow, and to honour the spirit of the deceased.
It would be my privilege to provide you with compassionate
guidance and a heartfelt, dignified service
for your loved one. Please ask your funeral director to engage me, or
you may contact me directly, just by phoning.
"Whilst life will not be the same as it was. It will be enriched by the memories and continuing influences of the deceased" Edward Searl.
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